“Vivian, if you weren’t taken, I would release you as my patient and make you my own. You are such a special woman and any man would be lucky to have you in his life. I would love that opportunity myself honestly,” I sat there staring at him. I was speechless, so I just let him continue. “I am the same age as your fiancé; I can take care of you and give you the lifestyle you want. Keegan has a sweet deal there. Regardless, none of that matters, since you are, in fact, taken. So, I think I’ll keep you as my patient so I can at least keep very close tabs on you, beautiful.” He kissed me on the forehead, winked at me, and walked out of the room.…
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The next few months flew by after the baby was born, but things weren’t easy. My older man, Keegan, was averaging over 500 hours a month for a couple months, and I felt like a single mom because of it. Then, to top it off, I had to go back to work full-time around three months after the baby was born. This was freeing and frustrating at the same time
It was also the time of year again for the massive family cookout/get-together in D.C. for Keegan’s family. Everyone would be there, at least according to Keegan’s mom.…
Relationships aren’t easy, especially a May-December relationship. Dating an older man isn’t always just about the money—they require just as much, if not more, effort than regular relationships. Women who date older men are more likely to face issues about kids, marriage, and sex, which can lead to other obstacles or disagreements in your May-December relationship.
If you’re having trouble in your May-December relationship, one researcher has a solution that might work: don’t sleep in the same bed.…
If you’re looking for a sugar daddy, dating sites are always a good option, especially one that’s specially designed to match rich, older men with beautiful younger women. Sugar daddy dating sites are a great way to meet older men that you may otherwise have never crossed paths with.
But if you’re looking for a sugar daddy on dating sites, it helps to know what to look for so that you can weed out the men who will just be a waste of time for you—if you’re looking for a serious, long-term relationship, you don’t want to bother with a sugar daddy who is just looking to have fun with a hot young sugar baby.…
If you’ve ever dated an older man, you’ve probably gotten a million and one questions about what an age gap relationship is like, and why you’re wasting your time dating older men when there are so many young ones out there. Not to worry, we’ve got you covered. The next time someone shows some interest in your less-than-traditional age gap relationship, here are some of the reasons you can share about why it’s better dating older men.
• They’re financially stable. Older men have made their money and, at this point in their life, they’re more willing to sit back and enjoy the ride.…
The whole point of having a sugar daddy is to be with a man who, among other qualities, has money—to be a good sugar daddy, he needs to have the financial means to look after you and spoil you, otherwise he’s just an ordinary boyfriend. Sometimes, it’s easy to spot a rich man in a crowd, just by the way he behaves and how he carries himself. Other times, however, it can be a little trickier to find a rich man. But it helps if you know where to look.
If you’re trying to find a rich man to be your next sugar daddy, you might want to make your way to New York.…
Every sugar daddy/sugar baby relationship is different—some are exclusive and based on a long-term commitment, while others have a slightly more open arrangement. It’s up to both the sugar daddy and the sugar baby to decide what the dynamics of their relationship will be. But a recent study has revealed that when it comes to sex, a committed relationship is much more satisfying than a casual one, at least for her.
Researchers talked to 600 college students about their relationships and sex lives and found that the women who were in a committed relationship were twice as likely to reach an orgasm versus women who were just having casual sex.…
Throughout our years together, my older man and I have developed a relationship that is open and trusting. Our marriage is so stable it had never occurred to me that it could ever be in jeopardy.
The day he said to me, “I can’t continue to live like this. You have to get help. This is ruining our marriage,” I was shaken into the reality that our age gap relationship was not foolproof. He had just given me the only ultimatum ever issued in our marriage. I immediately began to cry as I watched him walk out of the room, but I knew in my heart that he was right. …
It seems more widely accepted among men when a younger woman is dating an older man. However, whether or not women of an older man’s generation accept it is decidedly different.
My older man and I live in a community where couples of his generation dine together, go to movies together, and even vacation together. Certainly, he and his former wife spent many evenings on group outings with their friends.
However, I never expected or wanted to be included in outings with his friends and their wives.…
I introduced Fred to my sons a couple of months into our age gap relationship. I explained to them that we had tried dating, but since there was such a big age difference—he was 25 years older than me—it just didn’t feel right, so we remained “friends.”
I soon invited him to family holiday gatherings. He was always popular, friendly, and a perfect gentleman around my family. But they got to know him as “mom’s friend,” as I had a mental block that stopped me from calling him my “boyfriend.” The word just didn’t feel right.…
After eight years together, Fred and I still don’t have an “official” label for our age gap relationship, and to most people, even our own families, we’re a bit of a mystery.
My 17-year-old and 22-year-old sons have always thought of Fred as mom’s “regular” friend who sleeps in mom’s room because the couch is not comfortable for his old bones. My sister thinks we’re friends with benefits. My parents think we’re a couple and graciously include him in all family gatherings.…
When I first met my older gentleman, I was extremely intimidated. He was a powerful man with a very strong character, but he also had a great personality. I’m not very outgoing, so I often come across as very shy at first. I still managed to land myself a great guy.
If you’re shy like me, you can actually use this to your advantage. When you’re first potentially looking for an older man or sugar daddy, always keep in mind that you don’t want to come across as being too forward. You don’t want to put it right out there that you’re on the market for an older man with money—you’ll just end up looking like a gold digger who’s only interested in his money.…
While not outsmarting your older man is important, you also don’t want to play dumb either. If an older man, a potential sugar daddy, approaches you, talk as you normally would. While you might think that acting like a giggly schoolgirl is cute and charming, sometimes you just come across as being immature and childish. You may end up scaring him away if he thinks you’re uninteresting or vapid. Just be yourself and if he’s interested, you won’t have to worry about putting on an act every time you’re around him.…
Sometimes in relationships with older men, we tend to become dependant and want to spend every waking hour with him. This can be difficult, especially if he works a lot, or even worse, he’s married to someone else. But it’s important to maintain your independence and not rely on him completely. Some level of space between the two of you is actually healthy for your relationship—distance makes the heart grow fonder, remember?
You also want your sugar daddy to know that you can be happy on your own and take care of yourself.…
After finding out that we would be selling our house, I couldn’t help but feel a little heartbroken. I know it was in everyone’s best interests, but I hated having to move my kids out of the only home they knew. I left the lawyer’s office to go and pick up the papers from Mr. Johansen so that I could take them back to work with me.
I knew that my ex-husband had taken the day off, but I didn’t stick around to make small talk. I was too upset to stay there and face him, but he texted me shortly after and offered to pick up the kids from my mother’s place so that he could spend some time with them before I grabbed them after work.…
I hung up the phone with Mr. Brown and headed to the HR office to deny our relationship. As I walked through the office, I could tell by some of the looks I was getting that people knew exactly where I was going. I ignored the stares and whispers and headed into the HR manager’s office. Mrs. Roberts saw me coming and offered me a seat.
As I sat down, she walked around me to shut the door and I got a good look at her. For a woman in her late 40s she looked great for her age—a trim figure, long reddish brown hair, and great skin.…
I have always admired the Stetson man—my older, married lover—for the way he treated my son. My son did not have a true father figure in his life until he met the Stetson man. His biological father viewed my son and me as a package deal, and so when we divorced, he divorced the two of us. And then my second husband was only a friend to him at best. My son longed for a father figure to be interested in his life and future. He had just graduated high school with honors and was making lifelong decisions.…
In some cases, when coworkers or other superiors suspect that something is going on, they may report it to the Human Resources department. This is probably one of the biggest and most important things to be aware of when your boss is also your sugar daddy. A lot of employers have strict rules forbidding relationships between coworkers, especially bosses and employees. If you get caught, you may both find yourself on the receiving end of disciplinary procedures because of your office romance.…
What would make you leave your sugar daddy? This is a question my friend recently asked me when she found out about my older lover. Obviously, she was aware of the trips, the house, and the other gifts that my older man has given me. But she wanted to know more about some of the things that could go wrong in a May-December relationship. I decided to talk this over with another friend of mine, whom I had met at a gala where there were a lot of younger women who were dating older men from my firm. Here are some of our deal breakers when dating a sugar daddy:
Infidelity.…
The money runs out. While this seems like a rude, gold digging thing to do, it’s a realistic situation. Sometimes things happen. A sugar daddy gets a new lady and stops being so generous with you because, well, he’s spending it elsewhere. If you’ve become accustomed to receiving certain benefits and gifts from your lover, but they start to dwindle, it could mean that he has another sugar baby in the picture. Watch for less calls and/or texts too. But it could also be an issue with his business or personal life.…